Sometimes we are confused, why anyone would survive so long in a relationship or marriage even there is also a break in the middle of the road. There are some things that could preserved a relationships:
1. Communication
Happiness is determined by two people. Means there must be mutual. One way to achieve it is by communication. If you've started acting like a stranger with your partner, meaning you lose communication. Communication does not mean only talking but also listening. Make a good attitude in communication, such as listening to people talking to complete, before you express your own opinions.
2. Honesty
A lot of people are keeping secrets from each other. Sometimes, hiding something could be the best solution. But, more and more couples who argue that honesty makes marriage or their relationship lasted long. It may be the truth is bitter when we heard, but honesty will save the relationship.
3. Mutual trust
How bitter and sad life if you constantly tense and suspicious, is it true that all couples say. For example, when he came home late with a bad or a sudden meeting, should it always be suspicious materials? If there is a sense of trust, little things like that will never be a threat.
4. Laugh
Almost everyone acknowledges that laughter is a panacea for a relationship. Even in moments of embarrassment, the explosion could be a savior laughed the soothing atmosphere. Do this, and make the wrinkles on the edge of your lips into something fun.
5. Friends with the couple
"How can we be lovers, if we can not be friends?" That’s Michael Bolton said in one song. He was right, because sex with someone who can not be friends, will not last long. Relationship, it takes more than just emotion.
6. Respect
There was no successful relationship if someone looked down on her partner. There must be respect. There should be recognition in the climbing life. From whom else it was obtained if not from his own spouse? But do not forget, to get respect from your partner, you must respect yourself first.
7. Love in all the time.
How it could be a long relationship without love? So, reassure yourself, love him and he loves you. And these two people must be convinced of it.
8. Compromise
Like when we study economics, we know that the balance would be achieved if the demand and supply curves meet at one point. In romance, this is not much different. What you want from him, and vice versa, need to compromise to achieve balance. There are small things you must sacrifice to obtain happiness. And vice versa.
9. Forgiveness
Give apology and do not hold a grudge. For such a big mistake, 'law' is also still valid. Once you throw a grudge, then the relationship will not last long.
10. Prayed
No need a very religious person to ask this opinion. If you accompany your love relationship with prayed and beg his mercy to bless your life together, then your relationship will always
